Ladkiyaan :)

The most loving relation every person has in his life are girls be it a mother, a sister or spouse everybody would agree with me that the warmth which u feel when being hugged by mom is much greater than that of dad….Dads have their way of showing their love but it is Mother who wins when it comes to preferring one parent. I can still remember the days of my childhood when i was in 2^nd or 3^rd standards and my parents used to ask me something like “Tujhe mummy aur papa mein se kon sa aacha lagta hai” Just for fun(Maze maze ke liye bechare bachhe ko dharm sankat mein dalte the… ) In front of both of them i never preferred anyone of them and always said “hmmmm..... mujhko dono aache lagte hai... ”(Diplomatic me ;) ) but as soon as my dad would go i would tell my mom in her ears “aap jayada aachi lagti ho... ”…. From that time to this time i hav always been fascinate by the basic nature of the womankind…

Uske bina ek pal reh na sakoge tum…
Usko pata hai ye keh na sakoge tum…
Isliye ladkiyan ladkon si nahin hoteen..

I think all people might remember these line from the movie.. HUM-TUM..... and in my opinion .. ye sab kuch sach bhi hai....

Women are priceless
Without women
Life will be without spice
Simply lifeless

So always respect woman... (women bahut khush hongi na.... ruk jao.... abhi agli post mein iss se ulta likhunga... ;))

Family, Bachpan aur woh mastiiii

Chasing all those high dreams and thinking about life, we tend to forget about the little moments in life which are the kernel(base) of all the happiness in our life's which are just hidden away the many layers of artificial smiling and all the sadness which we encounter in our life.

Sometimes we just need to take out those moments from the ruthless library of time and wipe the dirt accumulated on the face of them and again renew them and try to live those moments once again for you, for the contentment of your soul. The world just keeps growing tougher and rougher as you keep growing. Life just doesn't ease off and when we learn to cherish what we had, then only we learn to live the life and then only can we be sure of having an elixir of happiness.

Two days back was sitting on marina beach and I called my cousin sister and started to talk about the stories of our childhood and all the fun we have had in those times and to that talk these happy memories have been roaming in my mind for quite a few days so thought of writing them.

That time made me remember about all the fun i had with my cousins when we were quite young. I will always remember the times we spent together at our house(Yes we are a joint family) Those 5-6 years when i was in classes 5^th to 10th are just memorable. All those images of all of us sitting for lunch in a row... (we were total 10 yeah 10) and eating from one plate. then sometimes playing Lukka chuppi, which i can term as one of the best games i played due to fun and frolic associated with it. I can still remember the joy and happines.. when we used to play pillow fighting... :) . This time when i went home and met her we laughed about that fight we had. We just used to have so much of fun. What about Cricket BOSS.. well our home is so big .. once we were playing cricket in our home and then Hitesh hitted ... “CHATAK”.. the glass broke down... other day again someone slammed.. and our neighbor aunty fell down.. they had to rush to the hospital... but we kept contuing playing cricket and broken many glasses, bulbs and ofcourse people's body parts... hehe well my mom was also the victim of our cricket gardi. :) Another time i can remember is when two of my cousins came to our home. We used to go to market and bring paanipuri... Dahi bhale.. and ofcourse chowmin... how can we forgot about the faluda with kulfi... yummmyy... … I know these things can sound idiotic and chidish to other people but thats what we did and these are the things which i cherish and want to do them, just that can’t think of doing them again and enjoying them as much as we used to do them. Can’t just forget those times when the all of us sat and bitching about our parents… how much they force us to study, how much control they keep on us just can’t resist a smile coming to my face when i remember those days. There are innumerable times like this which will remian etched in my memory forever like the time we had in our eldest cousin hitesh's wedding. Sorry bhaiya .. I couldn't came to your marriage really sorry for this... but will meet u and bhabi ji soon....... We will have a blast… :)

Dedicated to all my cousins with whom i have loads of fun and have a spent such a great time and specially to you baby bua ji... coz jab aap aate the tab thoda relax milta tha humein... apne parents se.. hehe, hope you read this sometime, Luv u didi… One thing i need to say ‘ Family is Family’

Koi lauta do woh bachpan ki masti.... woh bachpan ki yaadein aur woh baarish ka paani... :(

My Train Yatra.......

My Train Journey

hello bhai logs..... welcome once again to my blog, so aap
sab kajayada samay na lete hue me kaam bhi baat par aata
huin seedha.... (ulta kaise aate hai be..;))

ab sabse pehle me bata du ki .. I was coming from my
home Delhi to Chennai..... in Tamilnadu Express on
12th of april....

1) Mummy Daddy Families.. - These families will screwed
ur mind with in a second in a train compartment. Imagine
yourself sitting on the window seat watching beautiful
sceneries outside...sometimes... turning pages of your
book.. seeing the latest gadgets .. then suddenly

"O bhaiya!! aapka seat number kaun saa hai??" A middle
aged person asked. Following him is his family with
chunnu and his fatty mummy.

You try your best to sound polite "Bhaai saab 25 number
seat meri hai, khidki waali "

"Paaaapppppaa mekko window waali seat chahiyyyyye!!
uwaaaaa....!! mekko chahiiiyeee..." chunnu bursts out..

"Abhi dilaate hai betaa...,Excuse me bhaaisab baache
ke liye thoda adjust kar lijiye!!" and you look at
the little moron(chunnu) while gritting your teeth.

Then comes the "luggage management" part. The family
seems to have brought their town's luggage, and then
start gossiping aray ye suitcase kaha rakhe ... uff
aur ye bag.. aur ye balti....... Ohhh God.... and
my small bag will look like Darsheel Safary between sanjay dutt
and Salman Khan..

Himesh reshammiya and compartment me familiyaa unbearable hai dost!!

There will be at least an army of relatives on the
platform who would have come to see off their
"bhabi ji" and "agra waali bua ji".

Ufff bhGWAN BACHAYE BHAI................
ye toh kuch bhi nhi bhaii logo.. when I entered in
toilet .. on the front wall of toilet its written...

“SUNITA , I LOVE YOU”.......
Tumhara Sallu

like he is living in this belief that .... sunita might
not go anywhere but will definitely come in this toilet
to listen to your heart.....

and some philosophical as in "Ek aadmi ke hote
hai 2 mouth , ek to hota hai north aur ek south"and
some cheesy lines like .."Boond Boond se saagar bharta
hai, apni boonde apne pass rakhiye" , the
"chaiiiiiii...bhains ki doodh ki chaai", the wait
listed passengers clutching on to their tickets
sandwiched between two hundred rupees notes waiting for the
TT sahab,.. and a lot more .

During this train journey almost 35 hours of train ride,
i have finished 3 books! One book is 60 Greatest heros of
INDIA... it was INDIA TODAY edition. From this book I have
learnt about our national heros ,our scientist and ..
bhagat singh... some things about their personal life... .
. Of course they were just amazing.

Then during lunch time... one caterer came and he was
asking “Bhaiya mera sambhar kaha hai”..(Where is my
sambhar(food)).i was shocked to hear this ... what
this guy is asking about.. then simply I said...
“Bhaiya who toh me pii gaya”(brother that I taken)
now he was Shocked like Center shock chewing gum....
and said..”Bhaiya 42 packet sambhar pii gaye ”
(BOSS THERE WERE TOTAL 42 Packets) ... I said me
and my 2 friends has taken. then he said bhaiya
kaha se ho....(from where u are).. I replied bhai
HARYANA se.... then he said bhaiya phir toh pii liye
honge....(then u may have taken BOSS) coz haryana is
known for its foody people... (abay mere ko kyun ghur
raha hai be... kuch exceptions bhi hoti hai duniya me .
.. abay phir ghur raha hai.........mil beta tu
peeche waali gali mein).......... then another person
came told to that person.. bhaiya kyun jhagda kar
rahe ho... who toh aap picle dibbe mein rakh aaye the.... hehe lol...

so there were many incidents and haadsaas happen
wid me in my train journey.... but all were amazing
like .. selling water bottle... reading books etc....
but over all... its was good journey... :) :)





TRAIN SE AATE BHI SABHI HAI AUR JAATE BHI SABHI HAI... PAR YAAD REHTI HAI TOH BUS ... "YATRA" Cheerssss

SAAS-BAHU

After a long long time I was back to home…..very happy…very satisfied….longing for the best food of life……for sitting with my brothers and gossiping for hours…… for launging on the floor and watch TV…..

Monday afternoon lunch….it was 3 o’clock. I was browsing through the channels holding a spoon in the other hand, when my mother came and asked for pressing 12……and I did so. Any guesses what was there on STAR-PLUS that time???????......last Thrusday repeat of KYUNKI SAAS….my foot ewwwwwwwwwwwww ..A continuous and disturbing sound of drums and cymbals…..while the camera focuses on each character from different directions…each shot in color and in black and white as well….….and then freezes on the Hero/Heroin of the event (five minutes for such a small scene :(

I looked around in disgust gritting my teeth and thought….nothing has changed(except for the number of characters)…. My brother entered and saw my annoyed face…..laughed…and started teasing me by explaining what was going on in KYUNKI…like bhai ""tujhe batau kya hua ab tak.....""

I burst into a laughter and asked whether all other “programs” (god knows how do they call them one) were similarly terrible. “Yes”, he said.” But Thank God mumma going outside …TV is free for us in the evening….

Its really very difficult (nearly impossible) to justify whatever happens in any Ms.Kapoor’s family soap. And its even harder to understand how and what the lady thinks…because her small screen and big screen (Kya Kool Hai Hum) are far beyond comparison…….

She began the plethora, but now its not only her…..any serial starting with non-K letter is also the same. All moving around big families (all talk in crores),marriages, divorce, then again marriages, accidents, court cases, plastic surgery…yuck!! . The terror goes behind the screens also when….somebody married three times and never divorced grabs the Best Patni Award …..

You just don’t have to move anywhere. After one is over, you have precap of the same and then a flash for the third serial and a moment later recap of the second one. Gone are the days of the title song. They are still made but for the albums….huh…what to say more!!!

Anyways….when a lot of transformational and unusual things are happening in India…be it in Entertainment…Yoga…or….Education!!...the human nature then is unpredictable. May be it was the first time such a large amount of entertainment started and then viewers became trapped in. Now the inertia is so high that they just don’t think of any refreshing change.

One good thing is …all oldies have also got a best pass time at home :)